
This is not a real estate post. Yes, I'm a REALTOR. But I'm also a wife, a mother, a singer, an artist and a fitness instructor.
A quick background: I had an eating disorder when I was younger, and I've now suffered from severe Fibromyalgia for 7 years. I'm only 40 years old. Life hasn't always dealt me the best deck of cards; and with the real estate market being as difficult as it is right now, I'm in another difficult season. But I've learned a few things and I'd like to share them with you.
- This too shall pass... In life, we will continually pass through cycles of good and bad times. But it all works out eventually. And I say this as I sit here during one of the bad times... with severe Fibromyalgia and a very tight wallet. But I know it will pass.
- Most people really DO want you to succeed. As a perfectionist, this is something I have to continually tell myself. I have extremely high expectations of myself, and of others. But God doesn't expect me to be perfect. He only expects me to trust in Him, seek His face, and repent for my wrong-doings. I tell my daughter to strive for excellence, not perfection. This coming Sunday, when I lead the congregation in worship, I'll have to remind myself of this again =/
- There are ALWAYS people who love you. Even when you don't know it or can't convince yourself to believe it, it's still true. And prayer will lead you to them, or them to you, in your times of need.
- You can do everything right, and some people will still not be happy. That's their problem, not yours. Just let it go. For some reason, I find this easier to accomplish in business than in my personal life. Maybe because I can separate business from personal? Regardless of the reason, it's still true. It's just harder to accept when it's a loved one. But you CAN overcome and live freely!
- You don't have time in your life, for unhealthy relationships. (Refer to the previous paragraph) You can only change yourself. Get rid of toxic people in your life, no matter who they are!
I know this post is sounding like a self-help book. Perhaps I needed to reaffirm some things for myself and I
always like to share those times with others.
Another thing. I taught aerobics from the time I was 18 until I was 34. I even did competitive aerobics in my mid 20's. I also taught Spinning, Aquatics and Step. But at 34, the Fibromyalgia got too painful for me to work out at the level to which I was accustomed. Giving up aerobics was one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do. It was like giving up a part of who I was. But I then started teaching yoga. (God had opened another door.) And I found that I really enjoyed yoga. And of course, as the instructor, I didn't have to teach anything that was against my Christian beliefs. But last year I had to give up yoga too. Once again, the Fibromyalgia had worsened and I realized that if I wanted to keep working in real estate, the yoga would have to go. So once again, another piece of what defined me was taken away. And this time, there was no other door.
But those things are not really what defines me. Because I'm only who God says I am. And He sees me as the child He created and loves and wants to promote to a higher level in my life. And more than ever, I'm learning to rely on God. That's what He really wanted from me all along. We have too many distractions in our lives that keep us from hearing His still, small voice. But this time of re-learning who I am... who God has called me to be... what the next experience will be... will also pass, as I continue to lay every burden at His feet, and learn, and grow, and become the woman who will walk the path He has called me to walk.
Jeremah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
I have an awesome future! And so do you!
I'll be teaching yoga again soon. I've already started training again. The break from teaching, (the only time in 21 years), not only gave me time to reflect and draw near to God, but it gave my muscles time to relax and heal as well. <=D And I'll bet that when I start teaching again, I'll be a better instructor, an encourager, a mentor, a helper, a giver, and an all-around less selfish person: One who is focused on the needs of others.
My focus has shifted. It's still shifting. I imagine that will be a life-long process of putting the needs of others before myself. And when we reap the rewards of a life that is lived for the glory of God, it's worth so much more than anything we can accomplish in our own strength, or because of our own selfish desires.
A long time ago, God showed me that some customers will be put in my life NOT for me to ever make a sale. God's plans are so much bigger than ours. Sometimes He just wants us to encourage people and pray for them, without expecting something in return. This is why it's so necessary to keep our eyes on Him; so we don't miss what He is wanting from us. The reward for this type of obedience is FAR greater than a paycheck!
Matthew 14:29-31 29"Come," he said. Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. 30 But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, "Lord, save me!" 31 Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. "You of little faith," he said, "why did you doubt?"
Where is your focus? Are you looking at the storm? Lift your vision higher. When your eyes are on Christ, you can walk on water... (After a season of testing =/ ) When you focus on the problem, the problem just gets bigger until that's all you can see. But when we keep our eyes on Christ, all the problems seem smaller. Then we can have joy, peace and hope, no matter what the circumstances.
Phillippians 4:11-13 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the
circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Well, once again I've written a post that was completely different than what I had intended. So I can only assume that someone (in addition to myself) really needed to hear this. God bless you all.
This too shall pass. Don't lose focus.
Oh! And my beautiful daughter will be graduating with honors this month, with a full scholarship, and attending a bible college, relatively close to home. I guess it depends on where you look. You can always find something good to focus on... if you're willing to stop feeling sorry for yourself.
For those of you who are reading this post and were expecting real estate information, I can certainly help with that too! For all your real estate needs, make a Smart Choice and contact Lisa Hill with Adams Cameron & Co., REALTORS.

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